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Before starting my proven step-by-step guide I would like to thank Brad for his ex back guide called “Ex Factor Guide”
Brad’s Ex Factor Guide is totally different from all ex back guides and free advices that is available online. This is because Brad has posted proven and powerful techniques that will bring ex girlfriend back.
I am saying this confidently because I have apply these techniques when my first love broke up with me. I can’t tell exact reason for our breakup but after talking with Brad I realize one thing and that is…
It doesn’t matter whatever the reason for the breakup is you can always make your ex girlfriend come back into your life. However, it is you that have to take the first step. In case if you are interested in Brad’s techniques for getting ex back then you can click this link to watch short video presentation.
I recommend you to watch Brad’s video because when you combine Brad’s techniques with my proven guide then you can get your ex girlfriend back into your life in as little as 60 days.
Proven Guide To Get Ex Girlfriend Back
Ok…Let’s start this guide by saying, “I know how you are feeling now”
Yes, I know you are suffering from those painful and hurtful feelings of breakup that you never wanted to experience. I know how you feel when your ex girlfriend say she doesn’t love you anymore, I know how it did feel when you see your girlfriend dating, hugging and kissing to new boy. I know how you did feel when you saw dirty text messages in your ex girlfriend’s mobile from her new boyfriend.
As of writing this, all these painful feelings come to hunt me. I know how you are feeling just right now.
The good news for you is that you can overcome from all these feelings when you Brad’s techniques with this how to get your ex girlfriend back guide.
Before I talk about relationships and reveal my proven guide I want you to watch Brad’s video about getting ex girlfriend back. It is because for copyright reasons I can’t share Brad’s ex back techniques and without them you can take advantage of this guide.
Here’s the video in which Brad will explain about his techniques.
Have you done watching Brad’s video? Good now talks about relationships.
Forget About What You Think You Know:
There are many people who think getting ex back is as simple as apologizing for past mistakes. If getting ex back is that simple then no one is searching for how to get your ex girlfriend back.
When it comes to relationship advice and psychology of breakup then you should be careful in receiving advice because there are many clueless people who don’t know anything about relationship. After breakup your friend or family member surely gave you advice something like,
“Just say sorry to her and she will come back to you”
“Apologize for all the mistakes you done in past and promise not to do them again”
Although these advices sound good but these are the last thing you ever do if you want to get your ex girlfriend back because this will make your situation even worst. If you want to know the first step of how to get your ex girlfriend back then don’t do anything before reading this guide.
This comprehensive guide contains everything you need to win your ex girlfriend once again. The more you read this guide the more you will get understanding about the best way to win your ex girlfriend and higher the chances of winning your ex girlfriend back again.
I Want To Help You:
The main reason for writing this guide is to help you only. I didn’t write this guide to gain fame or fortune. I want to help men in fixing their relationship problems and cure their broken heart. I am tired of seeing bulk of new emails everyday from men asking how they can get their ex girlfriend back. This guide provides cure to fix relationship and help you in winning your ex back.
I try to make this guide as short as possible by not including content that doesn’t have any value or content that provide little help. You only find best and effective steps that are proven to work for you. If you want me to answer your question privately then don’t forget to send me your questions using contact us form.
The Sole Reason For Why You Are Alone?
I don’t want to talk about common mistakes that ended your relationship. If I start writing I can point out more than hundred mistakes that men do in their relationship however I don’t want to talk about these mistakes because all of these mistakes come to one BIG REASON and that is ‘loss of attraction’.
The reasons behind your breakup may be many but they all cause by one and that is again ‘loss of attraction’. Either it occurred in one night or it occurred slowly. Brad (the author of Ex Factor guide) rightly said, “Attraction Can’t Be Force”.
Think once about ugly female friend that having least attraction qualities, can you force yourself to attract her. Simply no one can force you if you feel she is not ‘your type’.
Same goes to girls as well, you can’t make girl to attract you, Attraction is natural process but you surely manipulate your behavior to adopt attractive qualities.
If you are interest in finding these attractive qualities then download Ex Factor Guide that will show you more than 20 attractive qualities.
Now let’s take a look on six deadly sins of getting ex girlfriend back and you have to stop them right now.
The Six Deadly Qualities:
As you already know women leave her boyfriend just because of attraction fades away from her relationship. There are many reasons for why attraction fades away from the relationship but they all cause of insecurity.
If your relationship is ended then I am sure you display one of these fatal characteristics (list is below). These fatal characteristics kill attraction and remove love from the relationship. That is the reason I called them “Six Deadly Qualities”
The first in this list is,
#1: Way Too Controlling:
Men and women want freedom, space and time to enjoy with their old friends. Women hate it when her man puts unnecessary restrictions. These restrictions put by men because of FEAR – the fear of losing her girl to someone better. Your girlfriend needs space and time to enjoy with her own friends and if you allow her space then it also makes your girlfriend to miss you.
The second comes in this list is,
#2: Being Too Needy or Clingy:
If you think your girl loves to see your call or message after every hour then you are wrong. Space is very important for keeping attention into your relationship. Thinks for once, do you ever attract by girl who bombard you with text messages? No, I am sure you never attract to such girl. A human with higher value doesn’t need human attraction because he gets it in abundance from the people he meets daily. You don’t need to tell your girlfriend that you love her every time instead tell her when she only deserves it.
The third come in this list is,
Women love those men that are having confidence on themselves. If your self-esteem becomes serious issue then it slowly starts killing attraction from your relationship. You would not realize until your girlfriend leaves you. If your self-esteem runs at deeper level then you need to contact doctor because depression is the mental condition that is far beyond your control.
The fourth in this list is,
Seeking Validations from Girlfriend/Wife:
Attractive and higher value men never seek validations from his girlfriend or wife. This is because they live their own life and doesn’t care what others think about them. If you are asking questions from your girlfriend like “Do you love me?” “How much do you love me?” “Do I look good with you?” it means that you are sub-commenting that you are not sure about you. You definitely have to live with ‘nobody is perfect’ because this way you can accept what you currently are and be comfortable in your own skin.
The fifth is,
Jealously is the ultimate form of insecurity. Do you hate when your girlfriend spend time with her male friends? Or do you hate when your girlfriend laugh on her co-worker’s joke? If you let these come over you then you are showing that your girlfriend is having higher value than you – simply showing jealously.
If you are jealous type then you have to live with mindset that “no one in her life has higher value than you”. Don’t make your girlfriend your entire life instead make your own career along with her.
The last and most common deadly quality is,
I think I don’t have to mention how cheating ends the relationship. If you are the one who get cheated upon then you surely know how it feels in the chest and surely you don’t want your girlfriend to feel it.
Men often cheat in the relationship but when women cheat it is because of her boyfriend display one of these six deadly qualities that are way too controlling, getting jealous, having low-esteem, being needy, unfaithful and seeking validation at everything.
Most relationship ended because of one of these qualities. If your relationship is ended it means attraction fades away from your relationship because you display one of these qualities. Sometime attraction disappears because of constant arguments that occur when girlfriend starts getting lack of appreciation in the relationship. Every girl wants to get appreciation from her boyfriend.
Do you ever heard “The person who cares least in the relationship controls the most”. Sadly, it is 100% true. Most probably your girlfriend left you against your wish and now she cares less about you – at this time this controlling power is in her hand.
Here’s the video that will show you how to win the control back in your life and use this power to bring your ex girlfriend back
Avoid Panic And Accept Your Situation:
I know right now you are full of mix emotions. You want to call or message your ex girlfriend and want to tell her how much you are missing her. These emotions are completely normal but this is the not the good way to get your ex girlfriend back. Even these actions can make your situation more worst.
These panic feelings bring depression and insecurity and as we all know depression and insecurity are unattractive qualities that kill attraction.
You are smart and rational person but you don’t know from where you are getting these feelings. Basically these panic feelings come from immediate loss of something that is valuable for you.
When you are in relationship with your girlfriend you didn’t knew the value of your ex girlfriend in your life but when she left you now you come to know about her value and this trigger panic.
The best way to handle this situation is to accept your condition. This is because you can’t force your ex girlfriend to change her decision. Most people do completely against accepting their situation. They bombard their ex girlfriend with miss calls, text messages, Facebook messaging, sleep with ex’s friend and also do stalking to find out about their girlfriend. All these negative actions make their situation even more worst and in the end they lost their girlfriend to someone new.
You are also getting all these negative emotions and most likely you want to do one of the above mentioned negative actions but keep in mind the way you handle these emotions will define you as person and your success of getting ex girlfriend back depends on it.
Start With No Contact:
The most important step of how to get your ex girlfriend back is the no contact. This is double-edged sword my friend. If you use it carefully you will definitely increase your chances of getting ex girlfriend back but if you cheat it then you are the only one who will get hurt from it. There are many men who won their ex girlfriend because of no contact technique and people who don’t get their ex girlfriend because they didn’t do no contact or make mistakes.
There is only one rule of technique and that is no contact (except your girlfriend calls you first). This is proven technique that can help you in getting your ex girlfriend only if you follow it without breaking it.
There are many reasons that make this technique successfully but the first and foremost is you are full of mix emotions and you are not in the rational mode to contact your ex again. On other hand your ex girlfriend is also full of mix emotions and she doesn’t know what to say and how to answer your call. If you try to call when your breakup emotions are fresh it is most probably you will say something that is completely useless and end up pushing your ex girlfriend away from your life.
By following this no contact rule for at least 30 days you are allowing your body and ex girlfriend to recover from negative emotions and in the mean time you can build some attractive qualities.
Take out your planner or set reminder that is exactly 30 days from now and mark it as ‘contact day’. Avoid contacting your ex before contact day. That means no email, text message and message on social site additionally, no stalking physically and on the internet. Keep yourself busy with your friends, career and hobbies and keep yourself away from sitting in the dark alone.
Note: Brad has provided complete steps on how to follow this 60-days no contact technique. In this technique Brad will show you how you can take full advantage of these no contact days so when you meet with your ex she will see completely new person.
Watch the video below to find how no contact works…